Dvar Torah Parashat Vayakhel - Parashat Para

Dedicated Leilui Nishmat Eddie Lincer A’h Yitzchak ben Aliza

By his son, Michael Lincer and Family

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Parashat Vayakhel / Parashat Para

Up for the Count

Last week’s Parashat Ki Tisa, discusses that Hashem wanted to count Bnei Yisrael. He also says, “Don’t count them. It’s going to cause a plague.” Hashem instructs Moshe to count the klal through a half a shekel instead. What’s wrong with counting Jews? Rabbi Jonathan Sacks A’H says that if you count Bnei Yisrael it’s a recipe for disaster and depression. Governments make censuses to show power and potential, and Jews do not even comprise a quarter of a percent of the world’s population. Hashem said “Zeh Yitnu—first give,” and then we should count what they gave. In this week’s parasha, Moshe counts the contributions for the Mishkan. They donated so much that Moshe had to tell them to stop giving. That is the power of Klal Yisrael. It’s not a matter of numbers. Count what they give the world, and you will know who they are.

Repairing the Sin of the Golden Calf

In last week’s parasha, before the sin of the golden calf, Hashem spoke to Bnei Yisrael about the importance of Shabbat. And now this week’s Parashat Vayakhel opens with, “And Moshe gathered the people of Bnei Yisrael and said to them, ‘These are the things that Hashem commanded... On six days, work may be done, but the seventh day shall be holy for you, a day of complete rest for Hashem!’” We see that the Torah brings up Shabbat again, but this time it’s discussed prior to the construction of the Mishkan. Rashi explains that this is to inform the nation of Shabbat’s magnitude, that even building the Mishkan cannot take precedence over Shabbat.

The Or HaChaim explains that idol worship constitutes a repudiation of all 613 mitzvot. Therefore, for Bnei Yisrael’s teshuvah for the golden calf to be complete, and for them to merit the Mishkan in their lifetime, they had to once again accept all the mitzvot upon themselves. Shabbat is equivalent to the entire Torah. Hashem repeated the mitzvah of Shabbat to give Bnei Yisrael the means to accept all 613 mitzvot.

The Or HaChaim continues and says that the first passuk ends with, “These are the things that Hashem commanded, to do them,” which can also be interpreted as, “to repair them” — because the commandment of Shabbat was a means to repair the damage of the sin of the golden calf!

Do Not Kindle a Fire

Moshe conveys to Bnei Yisrael G-d’s command to observe Shabbat, and he specifies the particular prohibition against kindling a flame. “Do not kindle fire in any of your residences on the day of Shabbat (35:3).” Rabbi Mansour asks why Moshe would single out this specific prohibition.

He answers that this verse alludes to the fire of anger. While we are to always strive to avoid anger, this is especially important on Shabbat, and so Moshe warns in this verse that we not “kindle” the “fire” of anger on Shabbat.

Whenever we prepare to do something great, the Satan tries to sabotage the undertaking. This is one reason given for the custom to break a glass at a wedding ceremony. Knowing that the Satan will try to disrupt this sacred, precious moment, we offer the Satan a “bribe,” breaking an expensive glass, as though telling the Satan, “Here, something went wrong, something valuable was broken. You got what you wanted, so now leave us alone.” This true of Shabbat, as well. The Chida wrote that there is a special yetzer hara that sets in during the final few hours before Shabbat on Friday afternoon. Knowing the immense spiritual benefits of Shabbat, the Satan slyly steps in to interfere on Friday afternoon in order to create tension and strife in the home.

Electricians and plumbers can attest that more ovens break and there are more leaks and clogs in Jewish homes on Friday than on any other day of the week. This is very real, and it is no coincidence. This is the Satan trying to arouse anger and tension in the home to prevent us from receiving the precious spiritual blessings that Shabbat offers us.

Let us commit ourselves to foil the Satan’s weekly scheme by being especially patient and calm on Erev Shabbat. By avoiding anger we can then receive the great benefits of Shabbat and bring Hashem’s presence into our homes.

Honoring Shabbat

A girl from a non-observant family had become a ba’alat teshuvah. Her father was in the retail lighting business, and each of his children was required to work one day a week in his store. It so happened that this girl’s turn fell on Saturday. She was torn between her father and Shabbat, not knowing which to honor.

Finally, she decided that she would honor her father – but in her own way. Every Saturday morning, she walked to the store and politely stood behind the counter waiting for customers. However, when they asked her how much an item cost, she quoted prices so preposterous that the customers immediately walked out. The girl was very satisfied; she obeyed her father, but never made a single sale. This was her way to make sure she was never mechalelet Shabbat.

After three weeks, her father began to wonder why he was doing zero business on Saturdays. He decided to spy on his daughter. Just then, a man entered and inquired about a $180 chandelier. “That chandelier is very special,” the girl said. “It costs $1,000.” The man said the price was too high and he left. Her father enraged yelled, “Why did you do that?! Do you know how much money you’ve lost me?” The next day, the father was surprised to see the same man walk back into the store. “I realize that $1,000 is a lot of money,” he said, pointing to the $180 chandelier, “but I really had my heart set on it. I looked all over the city for one like it and found nothing else. So here,” he added, reaching for his checkbook, “I’l1 give you $1,000 for it, all right?”

Stunned, the shopkeeper sold him the chandelier at its true price. He then called his daughter and announced that he had witnessed a supernatural event. “It came from Shamayim,” he said, and it imparted a profound message. “From this day forward,” he declared, “the whole family will be shomer Shabbat, like you.”

Shabbat in Vayakhel

The Arizal says the reason that Shabbat comes right after the episode of the golden calf is because when Bnei Yisrael sinned with the golden calf, they lost the crowns they received when they had accepted the Torah with the words naaseh ve’nishmah. Those crowns brought so much beracha for health and prosperity. If we keep the Shabbat in the proper way, we will merit to get some of those crowns back!

Another Gemara in Masechet Betza (16a) says that, “Hashem placed an additional soul in all of us on Erev Shabbat and it’s taken away from us when the Shabbat ends.” In Masechet Shabbat (118a) it says that “Those who delight in the Shabbat are given a boundless inheritance which will come in Olam Habah but will reap the benefits of that gift in Olam Hazeh as well.”

In the Torah it says, “On six days, work may be done, but the seventh day shall be holy for you, a day of complete rest for Hashem! Whoever does work on it shall be put to death. You shall light no fire in any of your dwellings on the Shabbat day (35:2).” The Shabbat laws were already mentioned in greater detail in last week’s parasha (31:12-17). The repetition this week, at the beginning of Vayakhel, seems redundant. Why is it necessary to begin the section dealing with donating money to the Mishkan with this brief preamble about Shabbat?

Many commentaries deal with this question. Rav Naiman notes in his Sefer Darkei Mussar a peculiarity in the expression “Sheshet yamim taaseh melacha,” which literally means “six days WORK SHALL BE DONE.” A more common expression, as we indeed find elsewhere in the Torah, is “Sheshet yamim taaseh melachtecha” which means “For six days YOU SHALL DO YOUR WORK.” It is peculiar to use the passive form of the verb for doing work. The Darkei Mussar suggests that by use of this expression, the Torah is teaching us a fundamental rule for anyone who is engaged in earning a livelihood. The amount of money a person makes is NOT commensurate with the amount of effort he puts into his job.

Intentions are extremely important. A person is indeed required to try to earn a living and support a family. One who does not make that effort and expects “maan” from heaven will be disappointed! However, it is flawed to make the equation that “The more work I do the more money I will make.” It does not work like that.

The Almighty decides what each of us should earn. We can exhaust ourselves in our professions and either we will not succeed in earning as much as we feel we should earn or we perhaps will earn all that money and then lose it due to unforeseen expenses or poor investments, or a variety of other “unforeseen circumstances.” On the other hand, one can exert the right amount of effort and the Almighty may bless the actions of his hands to earn large sums of money, far greater than others who work much harder.

This is a fundamental belief in our religion and it really is what Shabbat observance is all about. Common wisdom is, “Of course if one works seven days a week, he will make more money than if he works six days a week.” And yet, the Torah commands us to work only six days. If the Almighty wants to bestow upon us a certain degree of financial success, he will bestow it to us whether we expend six days of effort to earn it or we expend seven days of effort to earn it.

“For six days work SHALL BE DONE.” The work must be done, but one should not think “You shall do work.” The “you” is not what makes the money, it is the “He” (Hashem) allows “you” to earn a living.

There’s a famous saying that goes “As much as the Jews kept Shabbat, the Shabbat kept the Jews!” The Shabbat that we keep today and that was kept throughout the generations is the secret that preserved the Jewish nation until this very day.

The Best Business Advice

Just like Shabbat keeps the Jews, Don Ghermezian, Jewish billionaire and CEO of American Dream relates what he believes is a person’s best business advice.

A couple of weeks ago I was at a function, and a couple of young men came to see me. They asked me for some good business advice. I told them “I will give you the good business advice on one condition, you listen to the advice I give you.”

They agreed. I told them, “Guard your eyes.” They looked at me confused. That was my big business advice? I told them, “I have been in business for forty years. This is the best advice, no matter what type of business you are in. I don’t care whether you are manufacturing toothpicks or planting flowers. If you keep your eyes pure, especially in today’s day and age that means you are going outside of human natural abilities. If you go outside your natural abilities, Hashem will go outside of His usual ways or working and bless you tremendously.”

I invited these young men to my house for Shabbat, and we discussed the topic in length. After Shabbat one of the guys called me during the week and told me he has an incredible story. He said, “After Shabbat I was so inspired, I decided to delete a certain app from my phone. Then later I redownloaded it. On Sunday, I deleted the app, and then later I got the app back. On Monday, I deleted the app, and I said ‘That’s it. I am deleting the app for good. Finished.’ A few minutes after deleting the app I get a strange phone call. It was from a client I have been chasing for years and years. For all these years for different reasons the client had been unable to meet or commit, but today this client told me he wanted to move his business over to me!”

Within minutes of this man showing Hashem he was serious about protecting his soul through shemirat enayim—guarding your eyes, Hashem repaid his young man to show him he was on the right path! This client was worth $30 million dollars on an annual basis!

Trying to keep our eyes pure is a very difficult but not impossible thing to do. If you want a beracha for your business, try to protect your soul for Hashem, and Hashem will bless you.

May we all learn to appreciate the Shabbat and keep it to the highest standards that we possibly can, because it is the true source of all our berachot. May we also see the fruits of our Shabbat berachot through the Shabbatot that we enjoy with our children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren! May we all stay safe and healthy and have an easy time ahead of us in the coming weeks and years! Amen!

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Amram Sananes as written by Jack Rahmey

Discussion Point:

Do we treasure Shabbat as much as we do our earthly possessions?

This book is a compilation of Divre Torah from the weekly parasha classes from Rabbi Sananes’ teachings over the last 10 years along with my own experiences in those classes which has stimulated my Torah growth. I’ve included many pertinent stories and life lessons to grow from at your Shabbat table. There’s also questions and discussion points at the end of each Parasha to stimulate a Torah conversation at your Shabbat table for the whole family to participate in. Also, included is a holidays section at the end of the book to use for all of our special holidays and Yomiim Toviim.



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